Doubting Ian with the return of Jerry

In actually fact it was Dale who got back in touch with Jerry. It was one of those spur of the moment decisions to see how he was. Or maybe the truth was that Ian was doing our heads in, and we were hoping Jerry would be a welcome diversion. Anyway, we were pleasantly surprised when he  texted back with enthusiasm. He said his new relationship was going nowhere and he often recalled the fun night we had had. He hinted at a repeat, if we were planning a night in London in the near future. This made me enormously happy. I think I hadn't realised how much I liked Jerry as a person, and also what great fun he was in bed. Ironically, compared to Ian he is much more my type - manly, easy to talk to, relaxed.

But I had become so addicted to the sexual high that Ian sends me on with his hypnotic mind-play, that despite his campness, I longed to go to bed with him. When I agreed to become Ian's submissive lover, I took the view that, aside from my husband, I should be faithful to Ian. Dale quite rightly pointed out that this level of sub-dom relationship is potentially dangerous, and besides Dale and I were supposed to be exploring this lifstyle as a fun experience. Since then Ian has gone back to being his usual pain in the arse about getting a date in the diary, so whatever happens it doesn't look like he's going to be the regular lover he makes out to be.

So after the stress of trying to pin Ian down to another meet and the emotional turmoil of his psychological games, the return of the fun-loving Jerry was exactly what I needed.

Becoming Ian's lover

Four weeks ago, as Dale, Ian and myself shared the first of 3 bottles of wine, we clinked glasses in agreement that we would embark upon the threeway relationship that we had spent 8 months working towards. I would be Ian's lover, and Dale would be the encouraging Cuckold. This new relationship was sealed with a  sensual and wanting kiss, as Dale and I said goodbye, at the end of the evening, to our new Bull. Click here for details of the date.

Communication via text has since been regular and passionate, as fantasies are explored. Ian has also been preparing me to become his submissive lover. He is looking forward to subduing me and warns that I will be subject to a spanking for my feistiness. Wardrobe has been discussed, including photos of possible outfits emailed by Dale, for Ian's aproval. A skirt or dress with stockings and heals is essential for all meetings with Ian. He has also selected a nickname for me, now that I am to be his lover, and this name is to be exclusive to him. He has explored the possibilty of taking me to a swing club where he will encourage me to play with other men or women. He has also suggested finding a man in a hotel bar, to take back to our room, for me to have sex with in front of him and Dale. However, in the meantime he is looking forward to enjoying me as much as possible himself. We have explored the possibility of fluid bonding, but now agree that it would be better to play safe the first time. 

Ian is, beyond a shadow of a doubt, been the most exciting experience of my life. I felt this way about him when he was nothing more than a cyber fantasy, and even though the real Ian is very different, the way he excites me is the same.  He's not drop dead gorgeous, I don't feel I have a special afinity for him from a freindship point of view, and I certainly don't fancy him the way that I have fancied others. But he knows how to get under my skin in a truly seductive and hypnotic way. No man has ever made me want them as much as I want Ian. But the only reason I want him is because he cleverly groomed me into wanting him.

And then Jerry came back into our lives......

Click here for the next blog 'Doubting Ian with the return of Jerry'.

How to eat another man’s cum

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Cum cleanup is a popular and common part of the lifestyle for many cuckolds. Cucks who have tried it know the smell and taste of another man’s semen dripping out of our wife is a highly powerful aphrodisiac.

Thinking about licking your lady clean after she’s had sex with someone else is part of being cuck. Most heterosexual men aren’t psychologically inclined to like it at first. However many grow to really like it. They believe cum tastes much better after it’s been inside their wife. The turn-on is that another man just poured his semen in your wife.

To really enjoy cum eating you should get used to its flavor, which generally runs to the “starchy” or salty side of things. There are ways to improve its taste:

· Semen is better when it comes from a non-smoker and light drinker.
· The primary ingredient from the prostate is fructose, or fruit sugar. Taste can be dramatically improved by her bull eating fruit, especially pineapple.
· Diets high in fatty foods can degrade the taste.
· If your wife needs extra vaginal lubrication, opt for one that’s flavored and water- based. Stay away from silicone-based lubricants.
· Spermicidal cream can affect the flavor of cum. Try different brands.
· Younger men - especially those 18 to 22 - have the best tasting semen.

The best way to get used to eating another man’s cum is to sample your own. Lick up your sperm immediately after you’ve cum, or even while you’re still ejaculating. With practice you’ll be able to enjoy licking your own cum even several minutes after you’ve ejaculated.

When you get to the point that you can try cleaning up your wife’s pussy after you fuck her. When you’re ready to cum, pull your cock partly out so that only the first inch or two is inside her pussy so that your cum gets drained right inside her opening.

As soon as you finish do not wait. Slide down immediately and go down on her. If your cum is not already flowing out while she’s on her back, flip her over on all-fours and position yourself under her, or have her straddle your face.

Now that you’ve gotten used to the taste of cum and cleaning up your wife’s pussy after sex, you’re ready for cleaning up after ANOTHER man has had sex with your wife.

You have to withhold having any sex or orgasms for as long as you can stand it before someone else fucks your wife. You will find that this significantly increases your libido and you will be more eager to clean her up after she fucks someone else. It also helps give you powerful orgasms when you finally cum.

When it’s time for the big event, make sure the Bull knows what you want to do. After he cums he needs to move aside immediately, and your wife should spread her legs and plant her feet wide apart to give you good access, as well as a good view.

Ideally, use your tongue to find out if there is sperm at her opening. If there is none, she may need to sit up or lean back on a pillow to get it flowing toward the opening. You can also have her flip over on her tummy, or have her straddle your face. If the cum is trapped deep, you may need to use a finger to coax it to start flowing. Once it does, using your tongue to probe deep should keep it going. Getting all the cum will take several minutes, and then you will notice that the sharp taste will begin to subside when she is clean.

If you follow this you’ll soon be enjoying every drop other men spill inside your wife, and you’ll be glad to be the one cleaning her up after her extramarital affairs.

Snowballs and cream pies (by Dale)

Sarah and Ian have been enjoying a couple of weeks of steaming text messages. I observe the progression of their affair from the sidelines. But last week I was so hormy I had to join in. And so, unbeknown to Sarah, I slipped Ian a text message in the middle of their particularly raunchy conversation. As they say 'strike while the iron is hot' - and boy was it hot that day ....   

And so Ian must have spent the rest of the afternoon dividing his attention between gently grooming my wife to the place he hoped to eventually get her, and sharing his somewhat more advanced fantasies with me.

Ian and I discussed how Sarah would soon be taking his cum on her tongue ready for her to share with me in the form of a kiss. Ian was delighted that I was so looking forward to tasting his cum, so I confessed to him my private fantasy of a cream pie. I do personally believe it is my duty (and my right),

as a compliant Cuck, to orally clean my beautiful wife's pussy after her lover has filled her up.

The first Sarah heard about this was when Ian texted her to tell her that I liked the thought of him cumming inside of her so that I can taste his semen as it dribbled out. He wanted to know if Sarah would enjoy that.

And so with this delicate and controversial subject broached, Sarah tentatively asked Ian if he would be willing to cum inside her. Although somewhat early in the relationship, he was shamelessly enthusiastic about the idea of fluid bonding. He assured her that he always plays safe, which, in his opinion, made it even more of a turn on if he were to share this intimate experience exclusively with Sarah. He also felt it would really enhance my Cuckold experience as my wife takes a lover. He told Sarah that he would happily agree to only be bare with her as he wanted to make her beautiful sweet pussy his. He did however, push this theme a little too far by suggesting that I use condoms whenever I make love to her, leaving him as the only man allowed to fill her up! I compromised and  told him that Sarah and I will abstain prior to the first time he takes her bareback keeping Sarah's womb fresh for his seed. Sort of her presenting herself as a virgin to her lover and putting my Cuckold penis in its place!

Readers will know that our Cuckold/Hot Wife Contract is very clear that the decision is up to Sarah and her lover on this important issue, and I trust that Sarah would not undertake this decision flippantly. Secretly I cannot wait to watch this man thrust his bare cock deep into my beloved, then force me to clean up afterwards.

Read the next blog 'Becoming Ian's lover' describing Ian and Sarah's text message fantasies after the first date.

The slow smouldering effects of a hypnotic seduction

I have been having an affair with Ian for 8 months now. But until a couple of weeks ago the relationship had been conducted purely by text and email - he would make love to me via text, in this fantasy, cyber world, and his words would never cease to takes me to extraordinary heights.

Dale and I have now finally met him in person for the first time, as already described by Dale in the previous blog 'Interviewing our new Bull'.

Ian sat opposite me in a pub, us barely touching for the entire evening. And yet he made love to me for the umpteenth time. This time, without the aid of modern technology to hide the real person, like Valentino he mercilessly seduced me with smouldering eyes and expressions of passion.

However when we first saw each other face to face I didn't immediately see his magic.

We had arrived at the pub about the same time as Ian. Dale had received a text from him asking for our drinks orders and telling us to meet him upstairs. So I dashed off the the ladies to refresh my appearance. On coming out of the loos, Dale was waiting for me, and at that moment Ian came down the stairs.

And that was the first time I laid my eyes on my cyber lover - my future Bull.

And a very normal looking guy, whom I didn't quite recognise, shook Dale's hand before politely kissing my cheek. He was friendly, he was nice looking. But he was not the sex god I had built him up to be. 

Upstairs we took a table whilst Ian went to get the drinks. I sat down next to Dale at a table, and from where we were I had a good view of Ian from behind as he stood at the bar. I enjoyed the sight of his cute pert bum. He had told me that afternoon that he would be changing from his suit before meeting us, which I was a little disappointed about because I do like a man in a suit. However his lean body looked particularly nice in his well-fitted jeans and sweater.

As we waited for Ian to return with our drinks, I wondered if he would sit the other side of me. Only that afternoon he had been texting me with suggestive comments about gently stroking my stockinged thighs in my mini skirt over drinks.

He sat opposite. And we chatted, got to know each other. Ian chatted easily with Dale about business. He was confident, nice, and soft-spoken. In fact slightly  camp. Not the hard, super cool Bull I had expected! It was hard to believe that this was actually the same man that I had spent so many hours texting our sex fantasies through hundreds of text messages, whilst he groomed me into desiring him in quite an obsessive way. I did not recognise him as the man in the photo with a hypnotic look in his eyes gazing seductively back at me.

I didn't really fancy him, but I still believed he could deliver after what we had been through together. After all, the fire had been smouldering for 8 months. It had to work.....

And then I saw it - in an instant he changed, and I recognised the same hypnotic look that I had fallen for when I first saw his photo last summer. He became a different man as he made love to me with his eyes and mouth from across the table without even touching me. As he looked at me seductively and whispered that I was gorgeous and beautiful, I melted in the same way he had made me melt in so many of his erotic text messages. 

And then he went back to talking to Dale like a normal regular guy. He was like Jekyl and Hyde.

I wondered how long it would take him to change seats, to kiss me, to touch me. When Dale when to the bathroom I thought, he'll make a move now. Instead he gave me another hypnotic look and told me he wanted to take me to bed. He still hadn't touch me, but I nearly had a orgasm at his words and was aching for him to kiss me.

It wasn't until the end of the evening that he finally reached out he took my hand in front of Dale. He played with my wedding and engagement rings, whilst whispering that he could wait to taste me and that he needed to make love to me. I nervously chewed on my finger, which seemed to turn him on, because he looked right at me and said 'you're trouble'.

Touching my hand was the only physical contact we had the whole time he was seducing me from across the table.

At the end of the night Ian insisted on paying for dinner. Then he hugged me outside as we all said goodnight - the closest contact we had ever had! And all of a sudden we were locked in a gentle but passionate kiss - a kiss I believe we were desperate for all night, as we had endured the slow smouldering effects of a hypnotic seduction.

Read the next blog 'Snowballs and creampies' to find out about Ian and Dale's text message fantasies after the first date

Interviewing our new Bull - the real Ian (by Dale)

We had a great time last night having dinner and drinks with our new Bull. No sex and very little touching which was a first for Sarah however we decided to handle this one differently. We want to really get to know Ian after Sarah's eight month cyber affair which can be read about in 'Ian part 1 - a cyber affair'. He wasn't quite what we expected. Softer, gentler and more human. What surprised us was that he acted quite camp and not the big hard Bull that came across in his texts. However there was a mysterious look in his eyes every time we got onto the topic of sex. Like a switch was flicking in his head.  Sarah was mesmerised by this look and felt that he was making love to her with his eyes alone. We spent six hours in a quaint old pub in South London talking about everything including what Ian plans to do with Sarah when he gets her to the bedroom.

What was amazing is that this guy really gets the Trinity of hot wife, cuckold, bull that we are after and is really keen to ensure that we are all getting something from the experience. He was just as interested in making sure that I was happy as Sarah.

Having no sex on the first date has only heightened Sarah's desire to have Ian again and fully consummate the relationship. He has though given her a taste of what is to come with a very romantic kiss with a hint of passion to come as we said goodnight.

Read Sarah's perspective in the next blog 'Slow smouldering effects of a hypnotic seduction'.